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Supermarkets: Going Steady? Getting Married?

A customer shops at a grocery store in Chandigarh

A neighbourhood store is in a marriage with the customer. It needs to feel friendly and predictable, a place where she can go in a jiffy and load up her shopping trolley without much thought ( Photo: Ajay Verma / Reuters )

Kavita and Sanjeev met each other at a blind date. Kavita, since she didn’t know the other person and really wanted to have a long-term relationship, pulled out all stops to attract him. She wore her hottest dress, did her makeup perfectly, put on high heels. Ditto for Sanjeev. They both looked their best. However, it didn’t work out, and they both moved on. And repeated the manouvre.

Every time she went to meet a man, Kavita dressed to kill. And the men, too, were out to impress her. She kept ‘trying out’ new partners, until she met the right man: Solid, dependable, and one who knew her tastes and preferences. Ravi, she knew, was the one with whom she was going to spend the rest of her life. That’s when she became comfortable. The high heels were discarded in favour of comfortable flats; easy-to-wear jeans and tops replaced sexy dresses; and it was a relief not having to put on makeup every time she met Ravi. Kavita now sought steadiness of temper, not flash, and in Ravi she got that.

How she wished her neighbourhood supermarket would also follow Ravi’s example. When supermarkets started out in India, it was all very exciting! There were offers, deals, product samples and festivals all the time! Six years ago, Kavita first visited one such place; she put on her ‘going out’ clothes, as if she was attending a party and not making a trip to a grocery store.

The place did, after all, provide a party-like atmosphere with all the hoopla around it. The children, too, loved the carnival-like setup, with balloon-sellers and toy rides providing added excitement. It was fun to look for new offers during every visit and gawk at the cosmetics on display.

But after a while, as Kavita became a regular visitor, she gave up dressing well for it. There was no real need to frequent a grocery store in an Anita Dongre outfit. Her casual outfit would do just as well. In fact, when she looked closely, there were many women there who seemed to have simply picked up their purse and come there, without bothering to change into anything more formal than what they wore at home.

Visiting the grocery store had become a habit; the novelty factor had withered away just like in Ravi. There were women in bathroom slippers, in nightgowns with a dupatta thrown in, or simply in casuals. Clearly, they were there for the serious business of picking up groceries for the household and not for entertainment.

The store, on the other hand, hadn’t yet caught up with the fact that their dates with customers had matured into a marriage. Customers who treated the store as a ‘marriage partner’ wanted a different set of attributes. They wanted stability and predictability from it, not a casual flirtation with flashy displays and loud offers. They were regulars there not because the shop windows were beautiful or there were store-wide danglers promoting products, but because they knew they would get their milk and bread at the same price every day.

However, the store continued to treat its regulars as casual dates: There today and gone tomorrow. They’d come, indulge, make instinctive purchases and move on. Each day, the store adorned itself in the anticipation of a new batch of customers, and seemed to forget the regulars. And these regular customers wouldn’t be satisfied with a six-pair-socks combo on a given day; instead, they needed to know if they could buy their entire month’s stock of sugar in one large pack.

A neighbourhood store is in a marriage with the customer. It needs to feel friendly and predictable, a place where she can go in a jiffy and load up her shopping trolley without much thought. It has to be committed to the relationship, to understand what the customer needs on a regular basis and give her all that unfailingly.

In terms of store-behaviour, this means simple pricing, some unchanged facets, a stable arrangement of products, good quality of food grains, less noise every month and most importantly, a consistent availability of all items she needs.

A store in a mall has to have good aesthetics; it has to show its best during its brief interaction with the customer. If it is late for the date, it can smile, say sorry and give a rose to the customer. There’s no problem if it runs out of orange juice as long as it gives a ‘buy one get one free’ on the muesli.

The neighbourhood store, on the other hand, is heading for divorce if it forgets to pick up the child from school, and buys the wife a nice dress to tender an apology. She is never going to forgive him, just as she isn’t going to forgive the store for not stocking sabudana on the eve of Janmashtami. A 20-rupees discount on detergent is no compensation for the oversight whatsoever. Making the sabudana available would imply that the store understands her and lives up to her need for predictability and consistency. This is an instinct that is most important in a relationship.

There’s a place for both neighbourhood and destination stores [the ones within malls] in the market. The former offers a habit-formation proposition while the latter provides a ‘filler’ space to the casual customer. The store should understand what need it fulfills in the customer’s life, and behave accordingly. A mismatch here, and the ‘marriage’ is bound to collapse there!

And do note that most women, even in their shoppers role, are not keen on endless flirting and dating!

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Those inducted into malls 5 yrs back, will want to settle down to grocery from self service stores near home. New people - there are a large number of them - will get inducted to malls. That's why malls needvto be in 'dating' mode...
Your last line says a lot. So does it mean that after the initial euphoria and flirtation, a housewife goes back to her neighbourhood shop and the destination store is bound to see a drop? Or to extend the metaphor, the ratio of the time she spends at the two changes back in neighbourhood's favor? Maybe forever at least in the case of a traditional and non expanding neighbourhood. BTW - I could almost sense u r urge to say - women in their nighties - instead of the more genteel " in nightgowns with a dupatta..." Guess better sense prevailed :-)
@SupermarketWala
Amit, I believe from self service to counter service is too much empowerment downgrade. Women will not do it. (See my first pist onbthis blog). I see them ready for a simple, 'marriage mode', neighbourhood supermarket.
Outstanding comprehension, this. Its bloody imperative for stores to know when to show a leg or two, to impress. And once impressed, how not to struggle to keep impressing and give it all away overdoing it. A tall task for the ever enthusiastic Trade Marketing folks out there. Very many times, I am not interested to participate in the pompous promotions that makes me eligible for a free car, or a kilogram of gold, or a free holiday. I just want my butter and bananas without the hubbub around discounts and never-ending offers. Stores cannot go on the wooing mode all the time with all the customers. Either they do the balancing act well, or lose on one to another. Thanks Damodar Mall for the insights.
@SupermarketWala
Vimal, dating or marriage are both interesting and meaningful modes of conversing with the customer. Knowing which mode is she is and also knowing what business you are in, is wisdom. Am glad you like the thought here.
Aptly put...simply superb
@SupermarketWala
Am glad. You like the metaphor or the insight :)?!
The insight for sure and your unique style of making it sound so simple(as always :) ) lightens the read and registers it easily
 
 
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‘Born to be a grocer’ has a different meaning for me. After the traditional career track of IIT, IIM and Hindustan Unilever, I was going to be a grocer, much to my family’s disbelief. Selling ‘daal-chawal’ as a chosen vocation for the educated son was not their idea of smart choices. I wasn’t alone. I walked down the path with R K Damani of D Mart and Kishore Biyani of Big Bazaar, both avid customer observers and business creators by betting on the Indian consumer. Customer observation and insight hunting is now an instinct with me, after over a decade of consistent aisle running in all parts of the world.

To my wife’s delight I love visiting stores, but much to her chagrin, I equally love chasing women customers to see what they are buying!

Food, brands and retail, my vocation, catches everyone’s fancy. I’ve stirred up some recent excitement for myself shaping food stores for different ends of the market spectrum including upmarket Foodhall and now Fresh produce led neighbourhood store RelianceFresh, etc.

I’m excited by various cuisines, languages and recently, learning to play music. But through all my adventures, one thing has stood by me always, a good cup of masala chai! Meet me @SupermarketWala
 
 
 
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June 26, 2013 15:49 pm by Amit Kumar
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